Be Independent.
As everyone in the U.S. is celebrating the anniversary of our country’s independence, I’m also thinking about my own independence. While circumstances beyond my control did lead me away from my self-employed business to work for someone else full time, it does not mean I had no choice in the matter. I chose to do what was right for my family at the time. I made an independent choice.
We all have an independent choice.
Independence can be defined in many ways. I’m sure anyone and everyone would wish to be financially independent. To have the freedom to avoid financial stress, always be able to take care of family and travel whenever possible. Many teens can’t wait for the day when they can live on their own, independent and away from their parents’ household rules. Others may love the idea of being in business for themselves, to be their own boss and set their own hours. I can say from firsthand experience it is the best way to work but when times get tough, you do miss those regular paychecks and benefits. Others may dream of retirement, viewing that time in their lives as a way to feel independent…no longer actively worrying about the daily work grind, raising children or caring for a large home. As retirees, many look forward to living in a smaller home, spending time with their grandchildren, hobbies and travel while receiving a monthly stipend from their well-earned years in the workforce.
How about our ability to be confident in ourselves and what we can accomplish? Or our ability to live out our dreams, unaffected by the interference of others, whether real or perceived?
I believe those who speak the loudest against the goals you are trying to reach are only envious they cannot do the same themselves.
They fear moving away from the pack.
I’ll admit that choices made when you are backed into a corner may not feel like an independent choice. However, if you are making a choice for the right reason, an unselfish reason, it is best to take ownership of the fact that an independent choice was based on influencing factors at the time.
However, when it comes to decisions relating to your future goals and your dreams, don’t let the fear of true independence steer you away from what you can achieve. Do not fear moving away from the pack.
Feel inspired by the possibilities.
